November 8, 2018

About Us

LILNR & LICK Events is a pansexual, social and educational organization, dedicated to providing a means for its members and guests to network, teach, learn, share, practice and discuss BDSM and other related kinks.

It is our goal to create a community-centered atmosphere where adults with an interest in an alternative, pansexual, BDSM, kink or D/s lifestyle, can further educate and foster good fellowship in a welcoming, nurturing and safe environment.

In 2018, LILNR, the longest running, 20 yrs +, BDSM educational group on Long Island, and LI.C.K., Long Island’s Newest Parliamentary Kink group, merged into one Long Island Community BDSM Kink Organization.

We meet two or more times per month at a convenient location near the Nassau and Suffolk County borders. Our meetings cover a wide variety of topics, with lectures, live demonstrations, and hands-on workshops, as well as fun social events including a Community Picnic, our Holiday Potluck, and an Ice Cream Social.

  • LILNR is also known as Long Island Leather N Roses.
  • LICK is also known as Long Island Consensual Kink.

If you would like to attend one of our meetings, please click on Meetings for location details.

Please join the online conversation in the Long Island Leather N Roses group on FetLife

LILNR and LICK Events is a not for profit member elected, board-run organization designed for community transparency. We foster and adhere to safe sex practices, community safety, ethics, and the importance of emotional health. We do not discriminate by gender, sexual orientation, relationship lifestyle, race or creed.